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哪几种人不要生孩子（二）：年轻人，请戴套


生孩子该不该趁早？我觉得必须不该趁早，30岁之前千万不要生孩子。为什么呢？让我们按照古法，来罗列一下25岁生孩子和35岁生孩子的优缺点：

25岁生孩子的优点
  1. 生的快。进出产房也就十几分钟的事儿，比我拉屎还利索。
  2. 精力旺盛体力好，每只手抓俩孩子做深蹲可以不喊累。
  3. 没了。
25岁生孩子的缺点
  1. 刚结婚，所有钱都买了房和车，还欠下一屁股债，给娃买稍微贵点儿的玩具都要冥想三分钟。
  2. 事业处在起步阶段，想法多压力大，分到孩子身上的心思自然会减少。
  3. 和对象的小日子才刚刚红火起来，咣当一声天上掉下来一个大累赘，砸的你至少晕两年，爱情之火还没烧旺就他妈熄灭了。
  4. 幼稚、贪玩儿。30岁以下的年轻人都幼稚的不要不要的，别说自己成熟，你是没见过更熟的。你那就是幼稚，什么都想要什么都想干，只有你是 the chosen one 别人都是老王八。这种人能把最好的东西给孩子？没把娃玩儿死就算烧高香了。
  5. 见识少，知识储备不足，人生观世界观都不稳固。做父母的，其实做的是个榜样。你怎么待人接物，怎么判断是非，怎么自我定位，怎么实现价值，所有这些行为都会潜移默化的影响孩子的一生。就算是招他们厌恶的缺陷，他们也会不由自主的复制。而且，孩子不会听你怎么说，你嘴里装出来的逼是毫无力量的，他们只会看你怎么做，怎料你的吃相非常难看，所以他们长大了也只能是个伸长了舌头舔碗的货色。
  6. 对养孩子的准备不够充分，对困难估计不足，状况发生时抗压力和耐心都有所欠缺。有一种疾病叫“摇晃婴儿综合症”，是指持续摇晃婴儿致使其脑部产生永久性损伤甚至死亡。干出这种事的很多都是亲生父母，因为他们无法阻止和忍受孩子的哭闹，所以情绪失控以后才会剧烈的摇晃婴儿，试图使其安静下来。猜一猜这些父母中25岁的多还是35岁的多？这虽然是极端情况，但已经很能表达出我想说的意思。
35岁生孩子的缺点
  1. 生育危险性稍大（比如婴儿的唐氏综合征和先天性心脏病以及母亲的妊娠糖尿病，请注意“稍”字，“稍”字重读），生产较困难（“较”字重读）。
  2. 身体开始走下坡路，除非是坚持锻炼的人，否则带孩子会容易累。
  3. 没了。
35岁生孩子的优点
  1. 经济基础扎实，供给能力强。
  2. 事业步入正轨，通常能省出足够的心思分给家庭。
  3. 婚姻磨合期已过，二人世界已经享受充分，感情趋于成熟稳定，不再有遗憾和杂念。
  4. 成熟、豁达、谦逊、懂得付出、有责任感。不再把自己当作世界的中心，而是退居二线，把更多的精力花在如何给身边的人带去快乐和安全感上面。
  5. 三观逐渐形成，不一定有多高级，但是足够稳定、自洽。能够做到知行合一，敢于有意识的给孩子树立榜样，有自我批判精神，追求和孩子共同进步。
  6. 心理建设充分，有处理危机的经验和信心，抗压力和容错力都很高，一般不容易出现局势无法控制的情形。

 

综上所述，要想自己舒服，就25岁之前生孩子，生个孩子跟下蛋一样easy，养着也不容易累。要是全心为孩子的成长着想，就30到35岁再生，40岁也不算晚，体力上累是累点儿，但是收获是无穷的，不论孩子还是家长。

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